
It's taken me a while to pull this together because I wanted to have a reason for doing an update and not just rehashing the whole, "I like this bag because it's cool..." thing. I also have a pretty good reason to explore this issue again: my wife and I are expecting our first child, due sometime this summer.
As a result, my interest in bags has taken on a new dimension. Not only will I be carrying around my own stuff, soon the blackberry will be rubbing shoulders with spare diapers and bottles of formula.
As I also commute on a daily basis, this got me to thinking about what bags are best suited to a commuting father. When I speak of commuting here, I’m excluding those of you who travel by car. Your needs are a little different.


In this case, I talking about those guys (me included) who must tote their worldly possessions slung over a shoulder day after day. The amount of stuff in our bags typically expands relative to how far away from home base we are. And while my average day is not quite as dramatic as Jack Bauer's (above), anyone who travels by public transportation can tell you that the value of your bag can quickly be measured by how easy it is to organize, store and find what you need.
The Situation
Personally, I tend to rotate among several bags depending on where work takes me and whatever mood I'm in. At the moment, I carry two bags; an olive drab Jack Spade Day Bag for my day-to-day stuff and another small bag for my laptop. I love the Jack Spade bag - it is a definite favorite. It's basically a small messenger bag, perfect for a book, wallet, agenda, mobile phone, Blackberry, etc. It’s simple and neutral – fine for business related travels. The problem is that I can't add the laptop in there too, the bag is too small.
So, I carry two bags when really, I want to carry one. I had been trying out a very cool helmet bag from Flyboys.com, a supplier of armed forces pilot gear. It’s light and has a great practical military feel to it. As it’s designed to hold a fighter pilot’s helmet and related cockpit essentials, the bag is also cavernous. It was quite inexpensive and met many of my needs for an informal commuter bag. Namely, it carries a lot without being bulky, has several well placed pockets and is very durable. All key points for a good commuter bag.

I have since moved on to a compact laptop sleeve with handles. This is temporary while I search for a good single bag solution. The Flyboys bag is great, but after testing it under commuter conditions, I think it is better suited as a general travel bag that goes into the car or under a airline seat. It was designed to be functional, which it most certainly is, but not necessarily comfortably mobile.
The Commuter & Dad Bag Test
Out of practical necessity, I’ll have to pare down to only one bag in a few months so it better be a good one. It needs to act as a classic “man bag” and hold all the stuff I need every day as well as a business bag that can handle a laptop, files and other work materials. When loaded up, there should be not be any physical discomfort; no shoulder strains or aching back. I should also have some good, classic styling that can take me from running errands to business meetings.
How hard can that be?
Actually, I’ll be able to let you know in some detail, because over the next month or so I will be testing several potential commuter/dad bags and will report back on my findings. After some preliminary scouting, a few have come to my attention. Once I get the sample group lined up I'll let you know which bags I'll be testing out.


Whether you are looking for a basic everyday man bag, a commuter bag, or a dad bag, the same rules really do apply for all. It should meet your functional needs, be sturdy, have enough interior pockets to keep things organized and have a distinctly masculine look to it.

I’ll update you on my testing, and if you have any suggestions of your own please let me know. I'll also be reporting on this test in my regular column for Men'sFlair.com.
The last bag you show looks remarkably similar to my J. Peterman mail carriers bag. It's beautiful, tough, masculine. And really hard on papers, manilla folders, etc. They slide down and get crushed by the laptop (which I carry in a padded sleeve.) Did I mention how uncomfortable it is to actually sling and carry? I had to add a shoulder pad from another bag. Which didn't help a bit. OK (at best) for the car; disaster for metro.
ReplyDeleteFirst, let me say I'm male. Now, one to my comments.
ReplyDeleteCan we not call it a "man bag" and can we not characterise a bag as "masculine" or "feminine"?
I find it incredibly curious that American men are sometimes so afraid of playing with the boundaries of masculinity that a man's bag or a man's purse must be called a "man bag" or a "man purse". In other words, the insecurity of being seen non-masculine results in one marking certain accessories, sometimes seen as "feminine" by American man, as "man-X".
I carry a small bag with me which can also be called a purse. A man I dated for a short time would sometimes refer to my bag as "your man purse". I told him, just call it a purse! Don't call is a "man purse".
I urge you to please, in your future posts, don't refer to something as man-x (e.g., man bag, man purse, man breasts). Just remove that gendered word and use the word itself.
A small tease: Are American men so insecure with their masculinity that using the word "man" isn't enough and they have to say "he-man"? What next? A "male he-man"?
No more man-x, please.
Thanks Easy - the J. Peterman Counterfeit Mailbag is one the bags I'll be testing. I'll let you know if I have the same experience.
ReplyDeleteHi Thibault - I basically agree with your point of view. I prefer to just call it a "bag," because that's what it is.
ReplyDeleteI think there is a certain paranoia for American men when it comes to anything that makes them appear overly feminine and the bag issue falls into that area. However, I also think that it's rapidly changing as more men carry bags.
Thanks very much for your thoughts.
Looking forward to your findings. the other issue I have is the way that slinging a bag distorts my jackets. The collar always winds up hanging off my neck and the lapels get crushed. Not too bad when I wear an overcoat, but the rest of the time, I feel horribly disheveled.
ReplyDeleteI can vouch for the Critical Mass by Patagonia. It should certainly be large enough for your needs and it also has a protected section for you laptop.
ReplyDeletehttp://www.patagonia.com/web/us/product/product_focus.jsp?OPTION=PRODUCT_FOCUS_DISPLAY_HANDLER&style_color=48277-558&patcatcode=MAIN_FA07_US.CLOTHING_GEAR.PACKS/TRAVEL_GEAR.SHOULDER_BAGS
The styling ultimately depends on what you would wear with it.
I commute everyday by bicycle. I was using a backpack for a while and finally decided to buy a bag for which it was designed.
ReplyDeleteThe day I started using a messenger bag my life became much easier... the way it sat on my back and the way it distributed the weight was amazing. I was suddenly able to get through traffic easier since I didn't have to balance myself, bike, and bag.
I wound up getting the Banjo Brothers messenger bag. It has a wide strap to help the comfort factor, and it came with a laptop/document sleeve which contains all of the daily papers and laptop which allows the rest of the bag to house everything I need for the day. It also has quite a few organizational pockets for pens, phone, bike lock, whatever.
For someone that has to carry large items from time to time + the daily office stuff + the occasional sweater or something, this is an ideal solution. Great way to get it all in one manageable place.
"The Man Bag" I agree is a term best left in the closet. Preferably the bedroom closet of Stan Marsh (yes, the same closet trapped within which be Tom Cruise, R Kelly, and John Travolta within the fictional context of South Park, the animated series that is) if for no better reason than as an homage to the genius that is Trey Parker and Matt Stone and one funny as hell episode. All men everywhere carry bags, briefcases,messengers or the occasional satchel. Period. NO ONE carries a man-bag or man-purse and those living under the false pretense that they do, do not deserve to do so, and are better served to return to the gender neutral, non threatening backpack.
ReplyDeleteNot until one's self esteem gains in strength and becomes the greatest source of empowerment rather than insecurity will you be ready for the big leagues. METROSEXUALS ARE TO BLAME FOR ALL THIS STIGMA AND PARANOIA and the undermining force that has gone about renaming, reclassifying, or otherwise fixing what was never broken to begin with. Sure you can find the definition for man bag in Websters but so what...its a made up ridiculous term indicative to a small grouping of the male population that are heterosexual but also knowledgeable or concerned with matters historically reserved for the female market...ie eye cream, skin care, hair care, personal hygiene, etc. but none the less incapable emotionally to deal with the negative stigma society no doubt will clobber them should details concerning the nightly skin care regimen of exfoliate, cleanse, moiturize, repair and finally maintain, get out among their peers. No one wants to have to fend off homosexual allegations simply because product of all sorts grace your medicine cabinet. The result: unionization, gain power with number, fight power with power and voila...THE METROSEXUAL MALE IS SPAWNED. EWE, GROSS!
So there. Enough said and onto a far more exciting topic...leather goods specifically meant for the male audience yaay. Included within your reviews should be the Tumi Formula T line which is a collection of business targeted hard leather notebook cases, briefs, and messengers of exceptional quality, function, performance and price. I own both the padded notebook version and the circuit T and both garner a slew of compliments and praise from both male and females, but more females I will admit.
Along with the Tumi items I have an Louis Vuitton messenger in the classic LV canvas, several duffles from the old school ralph lauren blackwatch plaid coated canvas collection produced throughout the 80's and part of the 90's and nothing could be more masculine and timeless in my opinion. I admit I did buy a shearling messenger that is Ralph Lauren Collection with the intent to resale, but kept it for myself despite being an obviously female specific hand bag. But so what...just one of so many additional benefits reaped when your self esteem empowers. And I can still spit with the boys, scratch my balls and drink beer with the rest of em.